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posted on May 7, 2008 (modified on May 7, 2008)

To whom it may concern,

 I am a currently deployed in the Navy and I am a husband and a father to 4 lovely children.  To which one of them is 7 years old and diagnosed with ADHD and bipolar disorder.  Well approximatly about a month ago my son decided to start a fire in the garage.  We just moved into the house prior to me deploying and I did not get a chance to get renters insurance prior to leaving.  Being that I am deployed and can not even imagine or even fathom the costs of the damages.  So far the garage for 2 houses has been completly burnd to the ground, the vinyl sideing to the house is melted and needs to be replaced, the fence is completely gone, the neighbors 2 cars were deemed totaled and not repairable not to mention what ever they had and lost in there garage also and another neighbor lost about $200.00 in toys and other items.  I am asking for support with any and all donations to help me pay for all the damages that happend from my son starting the fire.  Your help would be appreciated a lot not only for my family but to help me be stay financially on my feet.

God Bless You and Thank You,

Jeremy

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Elaine of TSA
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3. Elaine of TSA posted on May 9, 2008... modified on May 9, 2008
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Dear battlecoxswain

Do not agree to pay anything till you have legal council which should be provided free of charge via JAG.  Sometimes agreeing to pay fine or payments is considered admission of guilt and once done cannot be contested leaving you at risk for additional claims of loss and expenses.  Get advice from JAG.  And I am sure that even military housing is governed by same rules as private housing where they carry insurance on property.  So again your losses should be only what you have lost in the way of possessions and perhaps deductibles if you are taken to small claims court or you make agreement with other parties to settle for deductible amount.  If you choose to pay neighbors the deductible for damaged vehicles, be sure to have them sign off on agreement that issue is settled which is another thing the Jag can help you draw up.

Best of Luck

ekikaseven
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2. ekikaseven posted on May 9, 2008
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You can be held responsible for some of the damages done by your son.  I'm sure people had insurance on their vehicles.  So their insurance would have covered all but the deductibles. 

Go & see base Legal/JAG asap.  Base housing should carry housing insurance.  Check with legal to find out your rights & your exact liabilities.

best wishes

battlecoxswain
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1. battlecoxswain posted on May 8, 2008
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Dear Elaine,

I am living in military housing and I do not know if they even have a insurance policy that will cover the damages.  My neighbors garage is conected to my garage and they lost both vehicles because of the fire my son has started.  I also have another neighbor that is telling my wife to pay her $200.00 for the damages she that she has.  To me it sounds like she wants me to pay her deductible for her losses caused by the fire.  With the fire being started by my son that is 7 years old and has ADHD and bipolar disorder I think that I am going to be responsible for all the damages.  Tell me what you think?  I do not even have renters insurance either and I lost a whole bunch of stuff in my garage also.  If for some reason I do have to pay for all the damages I am going to be screwed big time and I am going to need help to pay for all damages financially.

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